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September 20, 2007
"What inside of you hurts so bad that you think by hurting me you will feel better?"
Everyone has times when others attack, blame, shame or guilt. What can be done? Can it be stopped without sinking to their lower energy levels?
Yes. You can overcome and dissolve the situation by staying in the upper energy levels of your Life Guidance System. I’ll tell you how. But first I want to share a few quick stories to let you know that you are not alone.
Did you know that Mother Theresa had people who did the same to her? Yes, saintly Mother Theresa had people who wanted her harmed and jailed.
Why?
Because they felt her work highlighted the poverty in Calcutta and gave the area a "bad name." They felt she was doing more harm than good by bringing awareness, resources and love to dying, homeless people. Mother Theresa was threatened with physical harm and jail. As much as she was loved by millions, she was also the target of the harmful intent and hurtful lies of some.
What did Mother Theresa do?
Notice what she didn’t do. She didn’t attack her attackers. Instead, she continued her mission of love and charity concentrating on what she wanted. Eventually as people watched the love come from Mother Theresa and the venom come from her attackers, it was obvious her attackers were foolish, hurtful people living in and acting from the lower energy levels of their Life Guidance System.
In my area we have a Chinese restaurant. A young man named Andy used to work there. He and I developed a friendship. He taught me a bit of Chinese. I helped him with a bit of English.
Christmas was approaching. I asked Andy about the holiday and religious beliefs of his family in China and if they believed in God. He said they did not believe in God. So I asked if they believed in Buddha. He said, "No, no. Buddha no good. Dalai Lama no good. Dalai Lama evil and bad."
Now I just about laughed out loud in amazement at this. But instead, I asked, "Why? Why is the Dalai Lama no good?"
Andy looked puzzled. I could see his mind trying to come up with an answer. He tried to stall with a smile. Again, I asked, "Why is Dalai Lama no good?"
Andy finally said, "Because Chinese government says he no good."
I asked, "Why? Why do they say he no good?"
Andy stared at me. He swallowed hard and struggled with a smile. Finally through his smile, Andy said, "I do not know."
Here is a young Chinese man that for no rational, intelligent or truthful reason had contempt and hate towards the Dalai Lama, winner of the Nobel Peace Prize.
How did it happen? Someone speaking from the lower energy levels told Andy that the Dalai Lama was a bad person, a scammer and evil. Andy picked up on the lower energy levels. He believed it until I asked him specifically why.
So what can you do about people who verbally attack you?
One of the first questions I ask people who are projecting attack is: "What inside of you hurts so bad that you think by hurting me you will feel better?"
Every action people take is about helping themselves feel better, whether it is helping or hurting another.
The action any person takes depends on where they are living in their Life Guidance System. How can you see where a person is living and creating from? Look at their actions.
If they are attacking another or participating in a war on another, they are living and creating from the lowest levels of their Life Guidance System such as fear, anger and revenge.
To blame and judge is still a very low energy, but a higher energy level than fear, depression and guilt.
If you find a person attacking another, you know inside the attacker is a very scared, low energy being.
Attacking another may look strong but it is really a very, very weak position and action. For the attacker, it creates 70% of what they DON’T want and only 30% of what they want. (For more details on this get the Free Special Report that contains the Life Guidance System by clicking here.)
Is a person is difficult to be around? Is he hard to have on your team? Is he sabotaging self or others? This type of person is also living in the lower levels of his Life Guidance System, such as guilt, shame and doubt.
Is she a joy to be around? Does she seems to solve problems effortlessly? Is she helping and encouraging others? This type of person is living from the upper levels of their Life Guidance System, such as contentment, positive knowingness and thankfulness.
To the world, represent yourself and live from the upper level emotions of your Life Guidance System.
Look at the rewards of doing this.
When you are living at contentment and ease, you are creating and manifesting 75% of what you DO want in your life and only 25% of what you don’t want. Pretty much everyone can enjoy life at this level.
A great step is to look at the Life Guidance System chart. Decide how good you want life to feel. Decide how much of “what you want” you want in your life. If you are content with 80% of life going your way, then focus on living and being at the energetic level that will manifest such.
What about people who are attacking others? Give them as little attention as possible. But, represent yourself as who you truly are. Attacks by others can make you stronger. The question is “stronger what?”
This is where you have control.
You make the decision what energetic level you will master. Are you going to master “revenge?” It may feel better than fear because it is higher in your Life Guidance System. But it will create 75% of what you DON’T want.
Is this what you want in your life?
Or would you rather invest this time of focus and strengthening to achieve an energetic level of contentment and ease (creating 75% of what you DO want)?
Or positive belief which greats 85% of what you DO want?
Or even gratitude and love which creates 100% of what you DO want?
Pick up the Life Guidance System which is absolutely free in the special report and decide, right now, what you want your life to be.
Another great resource is "Healing is Possible" by Patricia Sherman, Ph.D., LCSW. Her blog is part of the Keyboard Culture Community of Experts.
Blessings of Love and Light
Lori Prokop
Posted by Lori Prokop at September 20, 2007 8:39 PM
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