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Success: Key to Success is Self Confidence
and Overcoming Inferiority Complex
Let me tell you a brief story. By the time you finish reading this quick article, you will see the key to success. An inferiority complex, feeling not good enough, leads to less than desirable results, even failure. I asked a doctor the characteristics of an inferiority complex. She said, “Symptoms can be attacking others, speaking negatively, propagating gossip and doing damage to self. A large number of people, who look like they have self confidence, suffer from the inferiority complex.” The key to success is to overcome the inferiority complex, either your own or someone else’s. After speaking to a convention of men and women in a large city, I moved from stage to an area of the auditorium near a sign saying, “Lori Prokop Book Signing.” At the autograph table I was greeted by a large number of people and signed books when a visibly intense man asked, “Excuse me. Lori Prokop, may I speak with you privately about self confidence and dealing with an inferiority complex?” I answered, “Yes. Can you wait until the crowd has gone?” With relief, he politely answered, “Yes, Lori Prokop, I would like that very much.” Once back stage, he began, “I need all the self confidence I can find. I have to achieve the biggest business deal of my life. Lori Prokop, if I have success, it means the world to me. If I fail, I’m done for.” I proposed he relax. Few situations or deals are so final, although they may feel to be the only key to success. An important step is to know if he did succeed that was fine. If he didn’t succeed, there would be other days and deals. This is the beginning of overcoming an inferiority complex and achieving self confidence. He continued, “I have a real inferiority complex. I just don’t have the self confidence I want. Here I am forty-five years old. I’ve been plagued by my inferiority complex. Lori Prokop, I listened to your speech tonight about self confidence. I want to know the key to success you, Lori Prokop, would recommend to help me achieve self confidence.” “There are three steps to take,” I answered. “First step is to discover why you have these feelings. I have a free report at my web site that reveals the 12 Rules of Abuse, which are beliefs people learned as children that keep them from achieving what they want as adults. “You must approach the inferiority complex and self confidence problems looking for a cause and removing it. This may require self-analysis or assistance of a counselor or therapist. “To help you and be of assistance now with your immediate problem, I will give you my own Lori Prokop formula which works for me. Starting today, I want you to repeat this powerful phrase I will give you. Tomorrow, I want you to say it throughout the day. Do you agree?” He replied, “Yes, Lori Prokop, I agree.” I said, “Here is the Lori Prokop Formula.” “I am free of worry about how to figure things out. God does that for me. Together, as partners, God and I achieve success in everything, whether overcoming obstacles or going straight to the top.” I continued, “You can substitute words for what God is to you. The main message here is that you are not alone. Your Life Partner is powerful and on your side always.”
About Lori Prokop Lori Prokop produces and presents leading-edge workshops on how to heal from abuse and create what you want in your life. While presenting workshops nationwide, Lori Prokop has created more than 300 books, CDs and DVDs. How to Heal Abuse is based on experiences witnessed by Lori Prokop of how abuse is created and can continue through generations and how the cycle of abuse can be broken and healed. Many abusers deny they are abusive and many people are hurt by behaviors they don’t know are abuse. A prolific researcher and skilled trainer, Lori Prokop’s How to Heal Abuse is consistent with cognitive psychology of the mind and leading neuroscience research on the effects of emotions and environment on the brain. Lori Prokop offers systems that answer people’s questions about the meaning of their lives and helps resolve the struggle between good and evil. How to Heal Abuse is astonishingly simple and usable by people of all ages and backgrounds and requires nothing more than a few minutes and an open mind. The first step for healing is to clearly identify, without judgment, shame, blame or guilt, what abuse really is. Identifying and defining abuse has become simple and clear by using Lori Prokop’s 12 Rules of Abuse TM which are easy to understand and remember. In her workshops and training, Lori Prokop heard from people that they wanted a guaranteed system to heal their lives and find their own right answers to their tough questions. The first people exposed to Lori Prokop’s system reported the experience had transformed their lives. Soon Lori Prokop began receiving invitations to teach the process publicly. Over the course of more than 15 years, Lori Prokop has developed, perfected and called this the Better Life System TM. It is now taught in How to Heal Abuse workshops nationwide. Free Report Including Lori Prokop’s 12 Rules of Abuse TM and the Life Guidance SystemTM
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